Wednesday, December 15, 2010

The Mockingbirds


[Note: I wrote this post in December but only got around to finishing/posting it now. Enjoy my dated references!]



In a recent post I mentioned that I've been holding off on buying books because it is the holiday season and I would not want to deprive my family of the pleasure of buying books for me. (Ha, but seriously, I am an excellent gift-opener. I do not hold back with the joyous facial expressions.) But, of course, my resolution was destined for failure. I went into my neighbourhood industrial-size bookstore, convinced once again that my loved ones would probably enjoy books as presents. (This is a mistake I make every year. My family reads, and avidly, but I never escape the common trap of buying books that I'd like to read rather than books I think they would enjoy.) Anyway, I was browsing and pretending any purchases would be for other people when I saw The Mockingbirds by Daisy Whitney. This book was on the NPR Best YA of 2010 list, and that's pretty much all it took for me to give in and buy it.

This is a powerful book about a difficult subject. I'll let the publisher's synopsis explain for you:

Themis Academy is a quiet boarding school with an exceptional student body that the administration trusts to always behave the honorable way—the Themis Way. So when Alex is date raped during her junior year, she has two options: stay silent and hope someone helps her, or enlist the Mockingbirds—a secret society of students dedicated to righting the wrongs of their fellow peers. In this honest, page-turning account of a teen girl's struggle to stand up for herself, debut author Daisy Whitney reminds readers that if you love something or someone—especially yourself—you fight for it.

To be honest, books about "special" subjects sometimes concern me, because they can often be too after-school special for my liking. But Whitney impressed me by consistently choosing the difficult route. Alex realizes right away that she's been raped, but she comes to that conclusion through evidence rather than memory: she can't remember much of the night before, but waking up naked next to a boy, coupled with seeing two condom wrappers in his trash can, is enough for her to realize she must have had sex. The complicated issue of consent is explored through flashbacks that slowly restore Alex's memory of the night.

This book was, at times, an almost painful reminder of how cruel high school can be. Alex's rapist does not take the accusation lightly. It was also a thoughtful exploration of how consent is misunderstood; many students were against Alex, and all the usual excuses appeared: she was drunk so it was her fault, she was flirtatious so she was asking for it, she was lying to get attention. While I can vehemently disagree with these viewpoints at this time in my life, it is chilling to think about how many girls I knew of in high school who were labeled like this, and to wonder how many of them might have "earned" their reputations in similar ways. I can't remember any actual rape accusations, but that doesn't mean rape didn't happen; it more likely means that because we weren't educated about the nuances of consent we didn't recognize rape when it happened.

This book is the rare example of an issue-centric novel that is an entertaining and engrossing read. Recommend!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Sometimes you buy a Christmas present for yourself

And sometimes that present is The Mockingbirds. See you after I've read it!

Monday, December 6, 2010

Another year over


It is that time of year again. Of course, I am referring to the end-of-year-list time. Have you been losing sleep wondering what your favourite things from 2010 are? No longer. Putting things in lists ranked from best to worst is everyone's favourite Christmas gift to themselves. I can't get too snarky, because reading these lists is always fun, and they are great for drawing your attention to books you didn't know existed. With that, I admit shamefully that I had not heard of any of the books on this list from NPR. They sound great, though, and I am particularly interested in The Things a Brother Knows. Fodder for my next trip to the bookstore? Not that I needed it.

Thinking over the year, I actually read very little. Reading for a living (I am a proofreader) is wonderful, but one negative side effect is that it can be difficult to come home and delve into a book when you've been reading all day. And sometimes when I do read, I find myself mentally adjusting the style of the book to our house style, correcting sentence structure I disagree with, etc. This doesn't happen all the time, and the more books I read outside of work, the better I am with it. But it's deciding to pick up a new book that can be a challenge.

Solution: the book club I mentioned in an earlier post. It starts this January, with the topic Wars of the 20th Century. I am so excited, you guys. Though I have neglected it in recent years, I used to have a bit of a love of history (history award, twelfth grade, *ahem*), and this might turn out to be the best category. As for what book to read, I haven't decided for sure, but I am thinking about Pierre Berton. Some might say I should move my focus from the most famous wars of the 20th century, but to those people I say make your own book club. Canadian history is really impressive, and I miss it. I am not sure which book by Berton I'll choose yet, but I am leaning toward Marching as to War.

The actual details of this book club have been vague so far, except for the picking-categories part, so I am not sure how the discussion is going to go. But I will definitely post my thoughts here, and you all would certainly be welcome to participate in any conversations about them. Starting in January 2011!

Sunday, December 5, 2010

A glimpse into my brain

My thoughts on an ereader in the past month:

1) Hmm, ereaders seem to be the big Christmas gift this year. They're cool, I guess, but I love real books.
2) Don't have too many ideas of what to ask for this year for Christmas. Maybe I'll put a Kindle on the list. What the hey. If it's free. But I'm still going to ask for a real book just in case.
3) I want to buy this book. But what if I get a Kindle for Christmas? Better wait.
4) IF I DON'T GET A KINDLE FOR CHRISTMAS MY LIFE IS OVER.

What happened? Ereaders have completely seduced me.